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Q - Dear Annabelle,
Why do women always hurt menās hearts?
A - Dear R.B.,
If I were to guess Iād say that you may have had a disappointing love relationship with your mom in infancy. Often, when a young child feels that mommy isnāt paying enough attention to him, ........(for whatever reason, real or imagined), he will grow to adulthood replicating that same perceived relationship with women he is involved with.
ALL women donāt ALWAYS Īhurt menās heartsā...but if you expect, or need, to be hurt, you will reliably find a female who will fill in her end of your equation. If this is a pattern of your experience, I seriously recommend a couple of years hard work with a good psychologist.....you CAN change the way you experience the world. As you probably know, not everyone experiences the world the way that you do. Youāve set your Īreceiverā to bring in certain signals......you CAN learn to change the signals that you draw to yourself.
- Annabelle
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