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Q - Dear Annabelle,
I have been seeing a man on and off for the last 4 years. He has been divorced for almost 12 years and has two sons from his previous marriage. He tells me he can't commit.
I think he is scared and can't admit it to me. I love him and think that he has strong feelings toward me too or else he wouldn't keep coming back. How can I help him without losing him forever?
A - Dear Rem,
This is whatâs called a Îno-brainerâ.........
HE has TOLD you that he Îcanât commitâ and you THINK something else. (Thereâs an old saying, Îalways take a tip from the jockeyâ.........meaning listen to the guy who rides the horse!)
Translated: go find someone else.......unless you enjoy living a life of fantasy and frustration. Go to http://www.amazon.com and order Dr. Laura Schlessingerâs book ăTen Stupid Things Women Do to Mess Up Their Livesä........youâll find yourself in there.
(When someone wants something, they HAVE it).....and what you *have* is a relationship with a guy who Îcanât commitâ..........now just WHY you want this is something for you and a good psychologist to figure out.
- Annabelle
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