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Q - Dear Annabelle,
I have lived with a girl for four years. She met a man on the web.The next day she told me she was going shopping with a friend. I was fooling around on the web, when i came across her file. I found out they were sending letters back and fourth, and she had given him her work number.
They started talking that way, come to find out the day she was shopping she
went out with him. I asked her what she was Īgoing to doā, be with me or go with him. She said she didn't know.
This man is married and has two children. The girl I live with also has two
children whom I helped support for four years. Nobody could ever know how hurt I really am.
Sometimes when I think about it I just donāt want to live anymore
A - Dear Odell,
Well, it doesnāt look as if your lady friend has an overabundance of integrity.......you must feel very betrayed, indeed. Itās hard to imagine that a woman with children, who has found a good man to protect her and support her young ones wouldnāt have the moral courage to act with more character. That you are devastated is completely understandable.
It is the children who are going to be hurt most here. If, (when?), this whole thing blows apart, they will have a mother who is a dismal role model for how THEY should behave as adults and will have lost your loving support. Self centered grownups can really destroy childrenās lives..
Your pain will eventually pass....the kidās have to live this for a very, very long time.
- Annabelle
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