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Q - Dear Annabelle,
I want to bring closure to a past relationship, but I donât know how. Iâm in a new one now with a terrific person whoâs giving me everything I wanted that my Îexâ couldnât give me. I know my Îexâ still has very strong feelings for me and says to friends that I am the only one he would want to spend his life with....(although he hasnât make any attempt to prove that to me). Itâs hard for me to move on knowing this.
A - Dear Cassidy,
You, Cassidy, are a Îgame playerâ. Yes? (And so is your Îexâ, by the way.) If you now have everything you say you want, and you left the fellow who wouldnât give you what you -- and he -- knew you wanted, and now he says he wants you, even through you know he canât give you what you want........then, guess what? YOU, Cassidy, are playing with someoneâs feelings and you donât know your own mind.
You REALLY want to work this out? Go find yourself a really good psychologist and spend a couple of years finding out why, at 29, youâre doing this to yourself.
- Annabelle
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