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Q - Dear Annabelle,
Why would a man tell me he's not a game player and act like he is really interested
in me, and then find out he has been seeing another woman off and on all summer? Why didn't he ever mention her? Even in casual conversation he never mentioned her. His friends didn't even know about her. I'm really hurt because he knew how I felt about him and by not ever telling me about her, he allowed me to dream and build up my hopes for us.
How could he do this to another human being? I would never have let myself feel the way I do if I had even thought he might be involved with someone else. Any thoughts and feelings you have would be greatly appreciated.
A - Dear Melanie,
In the dictionary look up the word Īcadā. That describes his behavior. Now, look up the word Īsociopathā.......that describes his character. Men like this find women like you. The love doing this....itās who they are.
Youāve learned something this summer......you learned that EVEN THOUGH YOU SUSPECTED SOMETHING WAS WRONG............you ignored your Īuh ohā button. (Yes, you did.) After this, pay attention....thatās what itās there for.
Now, that you DONāT have this guy is the good news.......trust me on this one. That you were taken in by him is an indicator that you might want to get yourself to a good psychologist and work on why you allow yourself to be fooled. The investment of your time and $$ is a good one and wouldnāt you like to avoid anything like this ever being repeated?
- Annabelle
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