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Q - Dear Annabelle,
MY QUESTION IS HOW DO I FIND A GIRL THAT IS INTO GIVING AND GETTING VERY HARD OVER THE KNEE BARE BOTTOM SPANKINGS I CANNOT FIND THEM ANY WHERE UNLESS I HAVE LOTS OF MONEY WHICH I DO NOT I LIVE IN COLUMBUS,OHIO RIGHT NOW BUT ON APRIL 25th I AM MOVING TO SANDUSKY,OHIO PLEASE HELP ME ANY WAY YOU CAN THANKS VERY MUCH.
A - Dear Michael,
You're probably well aware that "very hard, over the knee, bare bottom spankings" are a type of service available from professional dominatrices. There may well be other women who spank and get spanked for pleasure rather than profit, but they tend to be somewhat shy about making these activities known and don't seem eager to identify themselves. Miss Anabelle hasn't a clue how to find them since they have not come to seek her advice.
Perhaps that's why dominatrices charge, as you say, "lots of money." In big cities, dominatrices advertise in the alternative press, sometimes even in the yellow pages. ( Miss Anabelle has no idea whether they advertise in Columbus or Sandusky. You'll have to consult your local alternative newspaper and yellow pages for listings.)
The kind of serious spanking you say you want is part of what people who study this sort of thing call "sado-masochistic" sex. It is also considered "perversion." To psychologists and other professionals, "perversion" means more than just "Donât!" Perverse practices substitute pain for pleasure, or at least confuse one with the other.
That is the opposite of "making love," which is the more usual kind of sex between people who care for each other...sometimes long-term, sometimes for as long as the pleasure lasts. ãMaking loveä is, (generally), intended to make the lovers feel, as Miss Annabelle said, pleasure........ and not the kind produced by pain.
If spanking and/or being spanked is only one of a number of sexual practices you enjoy, and none of those practices:
(1) involves anyone doing anything that results in physical harm, nor
(2) risks spreading disease to self or others, nor
(3) requires anyone to do anything against his or her will, and
(4) none of the practices involves anyone but you and the other
participant or participants, it might be be argued that your
sexual tastes are a private matter.
However, if you intend to have a wife and family, or other long-term relationship, you will almost certainly find that such tastes severely limit your choice of life-partner, particuarly if they are not part of a variety of sexual practices you enjoy, but are the ONLY way you enjoy sex. If that is the case, your tastes, even though they may be a private matter, will reduce your chance of finding long-term happiness, and you should consider seeking professional help.
- Annabelle
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