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Q - Dear Annabelle,
I am an Indian Citizen, age 27 years, working in big firm where no women are working and I have never touched a women in my life. Now I am going mad to do practical sex with women. I'm a handsome, tall and good looking guy even though I can't make women friends easily. I can't go forward and speak freely with them.
I have tried with hand but not satisfied. Nowadays I am going mad to have practical sex. Moreover I read sexy novels and sexy magazines. My parents are looking for a suitable partner.
A - Dear Syed,
Well, 'practical sex', by which I assume you mean 'normal sexual relations' with a woman, is sort of a tertiary step in a relationship. The first two steps generally consist of having a circle of friends and actually being introduced to a woman with whom you would then enjoy spending time. The second step generally consists of developing a good, solid relationship. Then, when you have come to know each other well, you might progress to holding hands, a little light kissing and hugging and getting to know each other a little more.
If you have marriage in mind and you've known each other for quite awhile, having sexual relations is not out of the question, if you ALWAYS use a condom.....(keeping in mind the rampant spread of sexually transmitted diseases out there). Humans are being bacteriologically, microbially and virally attacked, so extreme caution in these delicate matters is an absolute must.
If it's just SEX you have in mind, (and having it with yourself is not always your idea of a fun evening), it is my understanding that there are ladies who, for a fee, will provide that for which you seek. However, except in Nevada where this kind of commerce is legal, you could find yourself in an extremely embarrassing situation, not at all what you had hoped for.
You could, of course spearhead a legal campaign to discover just why it is legal to rent a lady's womb for nine months for the purpose of her having your and your wife's baby, (surrogate motherhood), but not her tangential part, (the vagina), for the purpose of short term personal entertainment......but I digress here.
You have set yourself a difficult task, feeling very pressured by your, no doubt normal, sexual drive and yet, evidently, never having developed the social skills that would have willing ladies available to you.
You don't say in which country you live, however, in almost every city in America there are bars where women go, often seeking male companionship -- and, yes, sex -- for the evening. Do you have men or women friends in whom you can confide? They would certainly be better able to help you on this subject than I.
There is also the possibility of continued sexual abstinence. There are legions of people who, having sublimated their normal, yet powerful, sexual drives, have put those energies into wonderful earthly creations.
Much good luck to you in fleshing out, so to speak, this very normal and joyous aspect of your self.
- Annabelle
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