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Q - Dear Annabelle,
Lately I have become very sexually involved in a relationship. I love my boyfriend of nine months but we keep running into problems. For one, my boyfriend seems to have premature ejaculation. We never have sex because if I just even rub up against him he'll have an orgasm. What bothers me the most is that I never feel fully satisfied, and afterwards he's completely dead. Is it normal for men to pass out completely for hours after they have an orgasm?
A - Dear Beth,
Only the selfish ones.
Beth, youâre going to get nagged here. Sexual preoccupation among teenagers is a direct result of not having passion for learning and life. Without have a dedication to your SELF and to YOUR FUTURE, all that teen age energy is focused on sexual behavior, then you pair up and call it Îloveâ.
Now, you donât have to believe me, but Îsexual satisfactionâ is a result of an entire cluster of feelings, beliefs and behaviors that are beyond the scope of what a 17 year old is capable of. Just because the body produces an orgasm as a result of stimulation, doesnât mean that sexual pairing is in your best interests.
If youâll just turn all this energy and concern toward you education and your future, the, when youâre in your mid-20âs with an advanced degree and an excellent career and THEN pair up with a fellow whoâs a good match for you AND youâre married to him, youâll begin that long and lovely journey toward the centenary mark learning what Îsexâ is REALLY all about.
Right now, all youâre dealing with is stimulus/response.......youâre lacking context...THATâS why youâre not Îsatisfiedâ....these are, essentially, Îempty caloriesâ.
- Annabelle
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