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Q - Dear Annabelle,
Why do I not want my husband? Iām not interested in sex at all. I feel very cold.
A - Dear Jean,
At 58 there are several possible reasons for lack of sexual desire. This is interesting because you may, by now, have had all your children leave home and your husband and you could be in a position, literally, to have the best sex of your lives. It could be that while your children were at home, assuming you have children, that you focused on them and lost your ability to relate to him. It could be that you are harboring anger and resentment toward him for, (whatever), reason. It could be that you have an imbalance in your hormonal or endocrine systems or in your brain chemistry. It could be that you are not clear on what sex is all Īaboutā and you think itās just the Īstandard fareā and not the amazing shared experience of two sets of nerve endings doing the ultimate interpretive dance. I really have no idea.
It wouldnāt be the worst idea for you to have a compete medical checkup and ask for a referral to a good psychologist as well, with a possible checkup by a psychiatrist in the mix. Somethingās amiss here, and it would be unfortunate for you to go through what is, essentially, the second half of your life without one of the best forms of cardiovascular exercise ever designed.
- Annabelle
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