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Q - Dear Annabelle,
My name is David and I would like to know is it very wrong of me to be very Active in Sex and Women who would accept it? Because I Had been Have a Very High Sex
Drive For a long long time and I admit I do Enjoy Having Sex with Women of All Kind. I just like to know why is it so wrong for Everyone to think it is?
A - Dear David,
I donāt believe that itās 'wrong' to have a very high sex drive...itās a basic urge, without which we would not have nearly as may people as we do. Of course, enough have acted on having a sex drive so weāre not really in need of more people just now. The appropriate expression of your sex drive seems to be what you are asking. David, at 41, youāve lived long enough to know that having an urge to DO something, and actually doing it are not one and the same.
Let me introduce you to a concept of which you may be unaware: itās called Īsublimationā. Now, the major urges that humans have, the sex drive being a particularly pressing one, are not always appropriately acted upon. Other men, having had your strong sex drive, rather than annoy various and sundry females and be thought of as a nasty old goat, have turned their sex drives to a higher purpose. (Thatās the Īsublimationā part). Great works of art, writing, music, building, and enormous personal achievement have resulted from these incredibly gifted males.
You see, just because you FEEL something, does not mean that you have to take that Īfelt energyā and focus it as a sexual outlet. Take a look at the New York skyline and youāll have a good idea of who got into a contest of Īmy phallus is bigger than YOUR phallusā. Look at almost ANY major feat of engineering and youāll see some aspect of what other men have done with their sexual energy. You see, youāre not alone in having an incredible sex drive. Go read Hemingway or any of the other great male writers. Visit museums where great art is displayed..........listen to the amazingly complex and powerful symphonies, look at the vastness of the road and dam building projects, the oil rigs, the latter day explorers and inventors. All these men have high sex drives and are expressing their great maleness through wonderful creativity.
David, rather that disgust ladies, how about doing something so wonderful with all your creative urges, that the ladies are pursuing you?
- Annabelle
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