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Q - Dear Annabelle,
From what I read you seem to be a Intelligent person not interested in sensational cheap party mentality answers but logical moral and correct answers - so I ask this question - where can I find information on being a great lover to my wife without having to spend $ and do sex toys benefit - I don't enjoy pornography so sex videos are out of the question but I will read anything that is helpful.
A - Dear Grant,
Women, (and men who know the secret), have the ability to transfer their Īhot buttonsā, as it were, to any spot on their bodies that they darned well choose..........and that includes the old saw, Īitās all in the mindā. Remember, the bodies largest sex organ is the brain and the bodies biggest organ is the skin......a veritable panoply of sensual opportunities.
More men could readily achieve the same ability if they werenāt conditioned, essentially from infancy, (by virtue of having the penis so constantly accessible and so easily stimulated), which creates a focus on just one spot for sexual pleasure.
Great question! There are some wonderful books on sex available through amazon.com, ( http://www.amazon.com ), or perhaps through your local library. However, keep in mind one thing, the longer you are married, the more delightful things you will discover to do to pleasure each other. For some reason, most people donāt seem to be aware that the all time Īsex toyā is the brain and, since it already comes attached to the Īplaygroundā they go out LOOKing for new Īthingsā to improve their sex lives...thereby missing a good deal of the fun.
Now, Iāll assume that you two are madly in love with each other and wouldnāt mind spending a few hours together in bed, (or wherever). Keep in mind that, while the largest sex organ is the brain, the largest sex organ by area, is the skin.........ALL of it.
For reasons of delicacy I wonāt get graphic, but think........of something you wanted very much. (Letās just make it an ice cream cone, ok?) Now, when you really, really REALLY wanted it your attention heightened and became focused....yes? The whole idea with sex is, at some point, to reach a climax. Well, if you can learn to keep that Īice cream coneā just out of reach for a verrrrrrrrry long time you can actually have an experience youāve only, (maybe), heard about.........a 60 minute orgasm......repeatedly.
(Look up books on ĪTantricā sex.........trust me on this one. )
This should get you started. Besides, just the pursuit of such a delightful pastime is fun.....yes?
- Annabelle
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