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Q - Dear Annabelle,
I am a 19/F, dating a married 35/M. We have been dating for about 4 months. I really care for him a lot and I know he cares for me. He has never cheated his wife before, and I have never cheated with a guy before. We do everything together, like sports. He is the sweetest guy I have ever met. One of his close friends even said "I never thought Wally would do that".
Also, he said out of all the guys he knows Wally is the best one. I donât want many people to know about it so I have only told one person, which is my best friend. The only problem is, my best friend is a male and is in love with me. So he really doesnât give good advice. He said Îif thats what you want go for it, but you know your moralsâ.
There is this side of me saying how bad I am for doing this, and then there is that side that wonât let him go. I ask him where I stand with him, and he tells me his Îmind is clouded but he cares a lot about me or he wouldn't do that to herâ. So what should I do? If I do end it should I tell his wife? I dont think I could do that to him.
A - Dear Kasi,
I don't have time to write a 'long answer' right now, so go with the Îshort answerâ.
DON'T EVER be a part of ANYthing that is immoral.....and that IS what you're doing. (Believe me,YOUR time will come). Do YOU want to be 35, married, and have YOUR husband having a 19year old honey on the side?
Stop it.......it's not good for you or for anyone else......your life is, or should be, worth more than being a petty, adventurous cheat.......and, NO, you don't tell his wife.
That's THEIR problem.
- Annabelle
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