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Q - Dear Annabelle,
Getting involved with a married man was not an dream of mine but that is where I am today. This man and I have been involved for about 2-3 months we have spent time talking and just being around each other, one night we got sexually involved the next day he told his wife everything, she was worried that I might be pregnant because we had unprotected sex. Thankfully though I am not. I enjoy the time I spend with him and want to be with him more. He has spoken to many friends about me including his father. My parents know a little about him but not much. Recently he is going through a separation so as to be with me. I love him and want to be with him, he expresses the same love. In a question you answered you said it was the forbidden fruit that would drive a person to be involved with a married man but I don't think it is if something is so wrong, why does it feel so right?
A - Dear Anonymous,
Perhaps you are unclear on the concept of your place in your own reality. You say that, ĪGetting involved with a married man was not an dream of mine but that is where I am todayā. I donāt believe for a minute that someone delivered you, against your wishes, desires and actions, into this manās arms. YOU showed up, and Īvolunteeredā for this assignment. I can tell you something with absolute certainty.......the day will come, when YOU are married, and some 20 year old girl with no more brains than you have is going to put herself in the way of the man to whom you are married. YOUR husband is going to be tempted to do with her what this man is doing with you.
Why Īdoes it feel so right?ā.........because, at 20, you lack both the moral conviction and integrity to tell the guy to take a hike. Youāre still a little girl inside ........stealing cookies from your motherās kitchen......only now you have set in motion a universal force that will, one day, come back into your life. Be very careful, Īanonymousā, how you behave in this world..........you create your own existence and, and, if you donāt know the answer to this one right now............one day, to your everlasting regret, ......you most certainly will.
- Annabelle
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