Guys Ask For Numbers, But Don't Call!


Submitted by: Chrissy

Q - Dear Annabelle,
Hi! I have a problem. Why do men ask for my phone number and never call me? Why am I always ending up calling first? This guy I was really into, asked for my number, he was a waiter at a cafe. and never called me. It's been about 4 weeks now, but I saw him last weekend. He was totally nice to me. He never explained why he never called me.

I am new to the dating system. and now that I am home from school doing my internship for college. It's harder for me to meet guy friends out of school. See, when you are at college, you live there and see the same people everyday and itâs easier to make friends. I don't trust men and when they ask for my number, I give it to them hoping something good will happen.

Nothing ever does. Why is it so hard for me???? I have until February of next year to go back to school. I am only 20 and all I am looking for is some fun. I met this guy in the supermarket on Wednesday night. He is a bartender at this bar I go to sometimes. Do you think I should visit him tomorrow night?

He's a bartender so He must meet a million girls a night. If he asks for my number, what should I do? He is totally my type. I'd love to get to know him better. Help me please. I don't trust men when they say they will call.

I don't want to give out my # anymore. !

A - Dear Chrissy,

At 20 you have a lot to learn......about a lot of things. Hereâs on thing you should know. Guys CLASSIFY women they meet into Aâs and Bâs, .....(and ÎCâs as well). This was very frankly explained to me by several people during the course of my research.......remember, I **STUDY** singles.....!

Now, an ÎAâ type woman is one a guy is thinking of marrying.......guys ALWAYS call the ÎAâ type girls.......they donât want anyone else to have them, so they take NO chances on having less than wonderful behavior toward an ÎAâ type girl.

A ÎBâ type woman is one who you can have a few laughs with, take on trips, have sex with.......and leave...........(Îcause what you REALLY want is an ÎAâ type girl). Guys sometimes call the ÎBâ type girls......but not always, because ÎBâ type girls call them........and the guys KNOW IT. ÎCâ type girls? Just read through other of the letters in my archives, Chrissy.........YOU can spot the ÎCâ type girls.

A question..........do YOU, Chrissy, think ÎAâ type girls go to bars? (No, they donât.) ÎAâ type girls are much in demand for their talents, personalities, character, and abilities in the world. ÎAâ type girls have their PICK of men. ÎAâ type girls are rather rare...........and worth becoming. Got it?
- Annabelle


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