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Q - Dear Annabelle,
I'M INTERESTED IN A FRIEND (2 YEARS), AND HE IS INTERESTED IN ME, BUT HE WAS HURT BY AN EX-GIRLFRIEND. HE BROKE-UP W/ HER AND SHE GOT WITH HIS FRIEND, MARRIED HIS FRIEND, AND IS PREGNANT. HE STILL VISITS HER AND TELLS ME HE IS GETTING OVER IT, BUT EVEN I (SOMEONE WHO HASN'T EVER HAD A REAL RELATIONSHIP) KNOWS THAT HE ISN'T NEAR GETTING
OVER IT.
A GOOD LOOKING, PICKY FEMME LIKE ME NEVER THOUGHT SHE WOULD HAVE ANY TROUBLE GETTING INTO A RELATIONSHIP WHEN SHE FOUND HER PRINCE. EVEN IF HE WAS BURNED BY BARBIE. NO, I'M NOT STUCK-UP,SO HE ISN'T AFRAID OF ME.
TO GET TO THE POINT: HOW CAN I HELP HIM GET OVER MICHELLE, (HIS EX), AND AT THE SAME TIME WIN HIS HEART!!!!! IT'S BEEN TWO YEARS SINCE THEY BROKE-UP, HE'S STILL A VIRGIN, SO THEIR WAS NO SEXUAL CONNECTION. I'M A VIRGIN TOO.
A - Dear Ginger,
Well, I can certainly feel your emotion about this one! As an, (almost) 21, you have time ahead of you to make better decisions........and going ahead with this guy isnāt in your best interests. Just from what youāve said about his behavior and all, indicates that, as often happens, things that are difficult are more alluring than things are are readily available.
You cannot help him get over her....that would put you in the Īnurse-personā category...and thatās never a good position to take. Go get Dr. Laura Schlessingerās book, Ī10 Stupid Things Women Do to Mess Up Their Livesā.....youāll find yourself in there. Truth.
You have many more years ahead of you to discover that life isnāt meant to be lived as a soap opera............life is Īrealā and, if you do it right, long and happy as well.
- Annabelle
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