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Q - Dear Annabelle,
Okay, this guy Jeremy and I have the same friends and we keep running into each other almost every weekend. We have talked a lot and we have a lot of things in common. I have a crush on him and I think that he likes me too because last weekend at a party he just stared at me.
Even my friends have noticed. Well, this next coming weekend I know that were both going to be at the same place on Friday. My question is, I want something to happen between us but he's really shy (and he's a Pisces). So what should I do? Should I make some kind of move?
A - Dear Pritchet,
What should you do? well, Īhello, how are you?ā is a fairly good opening line. You can always follow that up with, ćCan I get you something to eat?ä (Guys like eating almost as much as they like sex, but food is really much the better idea here.....you donāt want people staring.)
ĪCrushesā per se, are not a bad thing, but they definitely turn ones brains to mush. I can de-romanticize it a bit, (oh, thanks, Annabelle) ....just keep in mind that whatever process in you initiated the Īcrushā mode really just wants to mix your DNA with his DNA.....now, doesnāt that sound just awfully romantic?
Youāre 24, itās time that you developed some useful social skills.
Almost anyone, and, most certainly guys, really like it when you ask them about.......
them! I don't think Iām giving away any trade secrets here when I tell you that, when a fellow talks to you, you ALWAYS look him deeply in the eyes and smile sweetly, act as if everything he says is just really interesting. Now, if heās not that interesting, often, just your behavior will have him desiring to become so.
Truly itās the darndest thing. People, when they think someone THEY like, likes them, just seem to grow and get better.......then you find that youāre on the road to Īloveā. You see, love, REAL love, inspires us to grow and to be our best selves.
Have fun, be YOUR best self, and have a good time!
- Annabelle
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