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Q - Dear Annabelle,
I've been dating a 23 year-old man for about two months. He's charming, sweet, sexy and all those other good things. On our second date he felt the need to warn me about his terrible track record in dating - how I shouldn't have any expectations, how he doesn't have a lot to offer but that he really likes me and wants to continue seeing me etc.
When we go out we have a great time. He usually calls me every couple of days. This may not have a whole lot of significance, but he kisses me extremely passionately.
So, what to do? I feel like I'm getting mixed signals. I've been hurt before. Should I continue dating someone who is so reluctant to commit? Who warned me on our SECOND DATE not to have any expectations and then proceeded to kiss the life out of me? Help? Is all of this worth it if he's made up his mind? Can people really program themselves that way?
A - Dear Michelle,
I wonder how many words I would have to use for you to Īgetā that this guy is not for you. When EVER a guy Īwarnsā you about ANYTHING....believe him. You are volunteering for something really odd....I donāt know what. You didnāt tell me where you live, but there MUST be other guys....unless, of course, you think itās just a really great idea to be with a guy youāre so uncomfortable with.......you LIKE this sort of thing?
Take a good look at yourself in the mirror...........what would you tell a daughter to do?
- Annabelle
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