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Q - Dear Annabelle,
When I was 21 I had a relationship with a 27 year old woman and it failed leaving me
to think that I was at fault. This woman was the only person that I ever felt good with
and have not been in a relationship since as I don't know how to replace her and I am
afraid I will only wreck things again if I do.
A - Dear Peter,
Youāre 24 and Sydneyās a lovely city...........and itās full of women! For goodness sakes, think of any skill youāve ever learned.......letās take walking, a really indispensable one, ok? You fell down a lot, but you kept getting up...again and again and again..........got the picture?
Try not to take this process quite so personally, get out there and get into activities where women ARE.....learn to Ījust be friendsā, learn to laugh and have a great time. I assume you have an excellent education and have taken the excellent precaution of becoming a Ībabe magnetā by finding a career that pays really well. Like it or not, women want, not only a man who can make them laugh, and whom they find loveable, but one who can make them feel protected and cared for and that, Peter, takes $$$.
You CAN do this...........if you really want to.
Women like a man who finds them utterly fascinating..........and who is, himself, completely charming. Both these are learned skills. Good luck and get going!
- Annabelle
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