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Q - Dear Annabelle,
I know a female librarian, who, (I think), has the hots for me, but I'm not sure how to tell. She looks at me like she is hungry to eat me up. Its as if she is always making excuses to talk to me, plus I like her, and want to get something started but, she is a co-worker.
She has never actually flirted or made any advances towards me. I don't want to make a move and be slapped with sexual harassment. but I would like to know if she digs me or not. Could you give me some signs, to look for if you believe she is interested in me? Thanks.
A - Dear Clueless,
A woman who is interested in you will look at you and then, when she sees that you have noticed her gaze, look away. She will also likely engage is Īpreeningā behavior, stroking or playing with her hair or clothing. She may smile a little and then look away again. She may lick her lips slightly at the same time there is an intake of breath.
So, you want to check out the librarianās volumes, do you?
- Annabelle
Q - Dear Annabelle,
That I do, but could you give me some advice on what I should say, in order to explore these volumes. Because I also have been trying to emit signs, to suggest my lust, but I don't know if signs are as effective as speech. You know would, an old fashioned question like, Īcan we have sexā, do it for me?
A - Dear Clueless,
Would the question ĪCan we have sex?ā get the result you have in mind? Oh, absolutely!!......NOT! (Go watch the movie ĪTootsieā and see just how far Dustin Hoffman got with THAT one!) Excuse my asking, but, are you out of your tree? This is a female you're dealing with here, not some cat in heat! Yikes........!
Thereās a joke currently making the rounds having to do with what it takes to please a woman. The list includes wining, dining, conversation about how wonderful she is and how much you enjoy being with her, making her feel appreciated and special. Being nice to her parents, siblings and family pets, etc.
What does the joke say works for men? Show up naked, bring beer.
Since you are a law student spending a great deal of time in the library, go find one of the current books on relationships..........I would recommend one of the really good ones by Dr. Laura Schlessinger, but she and I are in agreement on Īno sex until youāre ready willing and able to raise a child within a committed marital relationshipā.
Somehow I have a feeling thatās not what you had in mind. In case it is, however, then DO read her books.........theyāre terrific.
- Annabelle
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